PHIL MARZO      
                                THE MOTIVATIONAL DIFFERENCE

 
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Welcome to a website dedicated to motivating the world around us with a variety of material that will not only oppose pessimism, enforce optimism, but more importantly; face realism. Although life has its many pleasures, it also has its many disappointments. While I look upon the events that take place in our times today, I feel compelled to motivate others to stand behind righteous choices and traditional values. These decisions require discipline and at times, need to be displayed in a manner that might be difficult to bear or accept. Nevertheless, we all have the ability to improve our way of life when we explore the many righteous options possible, despite our previous sins and foolish mistakes. More structure and renewal is definitely upon us and the time to act is now!

> Making a difference begins with an idea that is followed by high expectations that many might deem harsh or hurtful. Simply put, the truth is much more important than the sugar coated scenarios and overly painted pictures that are excessively presented. Unfortunately, what you see is not necessarily what you get. Hence, we should not settle for less when more can be obtained. The world has plenty of followers but unfortunately not nearly enough leaders. This is why many examples of wrongfulness are accepted without judgment or disgust. Of course, we're not saints but that is no excuse to practice or support the desecration of life which is overly abused. The change we need will not be given by those currently in the spotlight but certainly can take effect within our actions.

> Attitude reflects leadership and yet the meaning behind our name seems to be fading while our values are being forgotten. Today's society is crippled beyond belief, leaving many traditions lost and deemed unimportant to many people, but that doesn't mean we have to follow those who lead by a very poor example. In the absence of genuine leadership, people will follow anyone stepping forward. For example; there are inappropriate entertainers, deceitful politicians, over paid athletes, and many others that display derogatory images, false impressions, or damaging messages that demonstrate to us that these wrongful actions are acceptable. Don't embrace the habits that depreciate the value of leadership with absurdity, carelessness, misguidance, or unnecessary rhetoric.

> Much of the world’s population wishes for glory without responsibility and usually is on the path of least resistance. Discipline is growing thin and its practice is rapidly decreasing as the days advance. For instance; many people complain about the unfairness of life but yet do not wish to work for what they desire. In addition, many others are handed everything without ever earning it. Nonetheless, these individuals not only exploit the privilege of free will but are encouraged with poor upbringing or supported by many people who choose to buy into this sort of weakness. Make no mistake; the world is losing its sense of reality with every action of this nature. However, true rewards do exist and are only achieved within the methods in which they are earned.

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Although it seems like we have plenty of time to make corrections; time is working against us.
Life is very short and we may not get a chance to redeem ourselves if we're not precise, forgiving, or willing to learn. In a distant second, anything can be cut from the fabric of our lives. To live each day as if it were our last will enable us to further our accomplishments without delay. The lessons learned on our voyages of unfortunate failure can lead to enlightened success when we acknowledge the possibilities and put them to the test. Our constant errors, actions performed, risks taken, or sacrifices made enable us to bear difficult feats, endure great pains, and overcome monumental obstacles. Utilize the precious time you've been given and appreciate a life of improvement.

> Living a life of service is indeed an extreme privilege and should not be an unnecessary interruption or an abrupt inconvenience to anyone. When you choose to provide for others, you are showing that you truly care for humanity and its entirety. This form of concern leads to a selfless movement that can impact the world in many ways. Needless to say, we should all help others when we can and display the true measure of our character by impacting them with generosity, creativity, and righteous originality. In addition, accept the responsibilities you have chosen or have been given by going the extra mile when called upon. From your personal life to work related positions, serve others in a manner in which you would like to be served and utilize the power of reciprocation.

> With many diseases and other issues opposing our health on a daily basis, we must improve ourselves accordingly by paying attention to nutrition and exercising periodically. The human race is enduring massive health disorders and many of them are self inflicted issues that could be prevented. Aside from natural complications, there is no one to blame but ourselves if we do not improve our physical attributes in addition to building inner stability. Of course; confidence, vanity, and strength are bonuses but longevity is an imperative mission that should not be ignored, excused, or neglected. It doesn't take countless hours in the gym or nutritional certification to promote a healthy lifestyle but it does take discipline and dedication to oppose laziness or lack of concern.

> Drug abuse not only impairs judgment and destroys the senses of the mind, but leads to the unfortunate loss of life. From excessive alcohol consumption, steroid usage, and illegal drug abuse to the harmful effects of tobacco products and pharmaceutical prescriptions; we have the power to stop what these consumables do to humanity, by not supporting the habits of others, ourselves, and/or the companies that have no problem selling it. The value of life is more important than the value of the many dollars made on these products that mostly destroy the life we have and usually only mask the pain we're in. Don't be mislead or fooled by others who can care less about the many lives ruined or taken by these products and stand against the abusive nature in which they are used.

> Among the variety of religions or beliefs that exist, there is still so much controversy. Many people have difficulty believing in something that has no physical evidence or witnesses to its nature. However, there will be a time when we'll have no choice but to look to faith when logic will not provide an answer. Notwithstanding, our beliefs and capabilities can lead to miraculous experiences; as life offers much even when we don't ask. Many of us believe that God is responsible for this; some believe that a universal power initiates it, and others believe that it is all coincidence. No matter what your beliefs are, acknowledge that you're not alone and that faith can assist you greatly. It doesn't cost anything, can provide everything, and with eternity pending; believe in something.

> Chivalry by definition; is the sum of ideal qualifications of a knight, including courtesy, generosity, honor, and dexterity. Characteristics of this well-bred nature are rarely practiced today but should be, as they once existed in the past and created a social respect for anyone along the crossed paths. It is not a difficult task to extend these basic essentials that do in fact, make the world a better place. Yet, many still seem to think so or simply do not care. Nevertheless; manners need to be taught diligently, expressed faithfully, and should be the back bone of who we are and how we relate to others. We all have a sword to remove from its holding ground in order to demonstrate our power as a species; by remembering the level of class we once had and shall once again represent.

> Education is very important and will contribute to our development as a human race, providing that we are willing to learn from each other and defy ignorance. Rules and margins are guidelines that allow us to know where we stand and what limits can be surpassed with our actions. Without an education, we are not prepared to take on the many challenges that life has to offer. However, the art of learning goes way beyond the curricular process of getting a degree or technical schooling. Although these options can signify how educated one can be and lead to many great careers, it is the experiences of life that teach us volumes. Using any or all sources available, acquire the necessary knowledge that gives you the power to influence others to create a brighter future for us all.

> Despite the fact that our financial standing is indeed a questionable but important part of our lives; greed, oversight, or irresponsibility are what many of us contribute to its process. However; increased taxes, outrageous prices, hidden fees, and overly high annual percentage rates are intentionally flagrant. This should teach us all to make more intelligent choices regarding how we manage our finances. We are all targets to the many companies holding the notes on what we lease or own. Nonetheless, we have the option to fight back with the laws that govern much of which is being practiced. Research your options and stop placing your hard earned dollar into the hands of excessive profiteering by opposing any or all willing to strip you of your financial security.

> Explicit behavior, inappropriate sexual preference, pornographic activity, early pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, and disturbing abuse are being disgracefully displayed on a daily basis. This egregious filth is being allowed, expressed as an acceptable choice, and becoming very popular due to weakness, poor leadership, lack of moral value, and the absence of parental guidance. We must marginalize the rules that allow the desecration of self that conflict with our one chance to exist in this life. If you're not religious in nature, understand that science offers an explanation regarding the process of opposition and mathematical certainties. These issues are reaching the highest numbers to date and can only be reduced, avoided, or unlearned by our imperative actions.

> People are dressing more inappropriately and displaying disrespect to others and themselves without any hesitation or concern. Although we see most of the youth taking part in this absurdity, there are many adults refusing to grow up and pass on a better message to our children. For example; we have teenage girls wearing the most provocative clothes, young men wearing pants or shorts way below their waste line, and others who wear unnecessary accessories that express stupidity rather than originality. Once again, the lack of parental guidance and genuine leadership is the cause for this foolishness that should not be tolerated. Among many topics, freedom of choice has become the access to imbecilic behavior and an exaggerated representation of unsuitable idolism.

> Plastic surgery, sun-bed tanning, unusual body piercings, excessive tattoos, unnecessary make-up, and overall fashions are out of control. These observations are not judgmental but certainly display major insecurity and inadequacy upon humanity. If people aren't enough without these options, they'll never be enough with them. I've encountered friends, family, and others who have taken part in this foolishness in one way or another. Although it didn't bother me too much then, the numbers are at a record high and are now affecting youngsters. These marketing strategies and outrageous procedures are grossing more money than you can imagine while destroying the little innocence the world has left. Avoid these injudicious temptations and appreciate what you've been given.

Many messages currently displayed on web pages, TV, radio, movies, video games, books, newspapers, magazines, and other sources aren't what they used to be. For the most part; these options of enjoyment are slowly depreciating and giving us all direct access to harrowing entertainment. I for one, usually enjoy giving my attention to these sources but lately I've noticed how they are mostly displaying nonsense that others approve of or truly enjoy. It is as if many people are susceptible to wearing a metaphorical mask that enables the acceptance of mediocrity, repetitive failure, and inappropriate representation. Nonetheless; remove the mask, choose intelligently about what your mind is exposed to, and realize the primary concept beyond these countless observations.


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